Today's QuestionDescribe one or both of your grandfathers. What were they like? Did you know them well? What influence did they have on you?
Hmmm... let me see.
I had two grandfathers when I was born.
Both were cowards in their own way.
*One, he left the family years before and never knew his son, my father.
*The other, died inside when his young wife passed away from breast cancer. Leaving him with three small children. He married the, evil step-mother, who took everything away from his three children, and was cruel to them. They grew up and separated from their family, I was born and was give up for adoption at a year old. I spoke with him when I was in my mid-20s and he died about a year after that. I do not speak to the family at all.
************************************************Now... my adopted family was different.
*My parental grandfather died years before my adoption.
*My maternal grandfather was a funny man. He was the only one that is in my memory, and I am glad for that. He was a typical New York grandpa, a bit rotund, worked on his house and his beautiful yard as often as he could. He was mischievous and fun, he loved his children and my mother never had to try to please him, he just adored her. I only met him a handful of times, and was never close to him. He made the best wine that my brother and I used to steal drinks from down in the basement. He died in 1993, 4 months before his second great grand-daughter was born.
What do I think a grandfather is?
Someone who teaches you the things your parents can't, because your parent's aren't that age yet.
Someone who always has that twinkle in his eye, and sneaks you candy, money and things grandma said no to.
Someone who teaches you to drive... at age 4.
Someone who always smells like wood. (I don't know why... this sticks in my head)
Someone who has an inner strength that you never realized was there until you look back on it.
What about ya'll? Who was your grandfather? What do you think a grandfather is?? What kind of grandfather do you think your guy will be?