Thursday, March 5, 2009

Ever wonder....

....what it would take for you to walk away from your current relationship?

Would it be a lie? Them cheating? Or are you already gone emotionally and you are just waiting for them to find someone else, or visa versa?

Do you always have your foot out the door?

What would it take?


OR....


Is that not an option... are you staying no matter what?

3 comments:

Alexis AKA MOM said...

Yikes tough question. I once thought all high and mighty that if my husband did this or that I'd be out the door. Reality hit hard when one of those does happen and then you have some real tough decissions. It's so easy when you're not in the moment what you will do but as I've learned each day and situation is different. Sometimes a good conselor and finding oneself can do a world of good. And maybe even make the relationship stronger then it was ever before. And you might also come out as a better person and communicator. At least that is what I hope has happened. Just my thoughts from my experience :).

margelina said...

Wow, Lil...I'm definitely dealing with something like this right now. I thought about blogging about it, but didn't know how to word it. I guess because I am still trying to figure this out. Thanks for reminding me that I am not alone here. I feel like a terrible person for feeling the way I do...but how can you help how you feel?

WackyMummy said...

Been there done that. So easy to just be gone. The hard decision is to stay and work on it. But can you work on it when there's nothing left? If so, was there anything there to begin with? These are questions that haunt me.